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<DIV id=mainNewsContent class="mainNewsContent NewsContent"><TR><TD style="PADDING-TOP: 10px" class=td_24 width="660">女人出軌原因很多,但無(wú)論如何,在動(dòng)心之前要好好想一想:自己擁有的家庭真的不再是你的最?lèi)?ài)了嗎?你與“他”的外遇是真愛(ài)還是寂寞的彌補(bǔ)?不要把錯(cuò)覺(jué)當(dāng)成真愛(ài),否則,你會(huì)掉入一個(gè)更黑的深淵。
, n8 J2 Q- ] @6 P" V+ e<P> 當(dāng)今社會(huì),不少婚姻變得十分脆弱,似乎有點(diǎn)不堪一擊。兩個(gè)曾海誓山盟的心愛(ài)之人,竟在不經(jīng)意中“紅杏出墻”。男人有外遇還理直氣壯,女人也要找出正當(dāng)?shù)睦碛?,為求心安理得。女人?qiáng)迫自己相信,自己是為“愛(ài)”才跟“他”外遇的。</P>" x2 x, l$ m8 t# \) ?
<P> 因?yàn)閷?duì)現(xiàn)代大多數(shù)女性來(lái)說(shuō),只要因愛(ài)出軌就沒(méi)有關(guān)系,為“性”或?yàn)槠渌虺鲕壥遣豢稍彽?。女人?duì)婚姻的期望是以感情的滿(mǎn)足為準(zhǔn)則的,她們渴望被關(guān)心及愛(ài)護(hù)。而在我們的社會(huì)教育中,男性是不可以輕易流露感情的,也就是說(shuō),男人表達(dá)心中的感受并不是一件容易的事。有道是“男兒有淚不輕彈”。男人在感情上不善于溝通是女人最大的失望。所以,不能滿(mǎn)足這種渴求,日積月累,這種被忽略的情緒就會(huì)爆發(fā)。當(dāng)一位男性在此時(shí)對(duì)她表現(xiàn)出關(guān)心及傾慕時(shí),女人往往會(huì)錯(cuò)把感激當(dāng)成愛(ài)而出軌,因?yàn)椤八弊屇阌X(jué)得自己被重視,有人愛(ài),又回復(fù)了美麗、性感。</P>+ W5 M2 i# c3 V9 w8 M; C( f
<P> 女人與男人體會(huì)的是兩個(gè)完全不同的世界。男人可以把性與愛(ài)分得清清楚楚,女人卻不能。當(dāng)女人與伴侶兩情相悅時(shí)便會(huì)有靈肉合一的沖動(dòng),日久生情,產(chǎn)生依戀情結(jié)。性讓女人有愛(ài)的錯(cuò)覺(jué)。即使女人當(dāng)初只是為“性”外遇,而不是為“愛(ài)”,但只要不斷與性伴侶發(fā)生關(guān)系,這種依戀的情愫便會(huì)逐漸滋長(zhǎng),最終使女人認(rèn)為有“愛(ài)”。</P>& L& g* `* t! C
<P> 當(dāng)一個(gè)女人婚姻出現(xiàn)危機(jī)時(shí),會(huì)如饑似渴地希望找到另一伴侶來(lái)填補(bǔ)空虛和惶恐。充滿(mǎn)新鮮刺激并且無(wú)拘無(wú)束的外遇,會(huì)令她們仿佛重回少女時(shí)代。這時(shí)的女性往往分不清是激情還是真愛(ài)。</P>' ]/ c W# Z3 \( Z
<P> 婚姻其實(shí)是一種“習(xí)慣”,要維持這種“習(xí)慣”并使之不能有“惰”性,是一個(gè)很難掌握的尺度。在婚姻中“永遠(yuǎn)擁有”如果不被“熟視無(wú)睹”、“無(wú)須重視”所取代,那么,婚姻也許會(huì)像憧憬的一樣美好。無(wú)論男人和女人,都要警惕婚姻中的惰性,相互溝通、充滿(mǎn)激情才會(huì)維系彼此的吸引。 </P><A href="http://www.souod.com/"><FONT color=#810081><搜得健康網(wǎng),專(zhuān)業(yè)健康知識(shí)分享,為你健康保駕護(hù)航></FONT></A>" ]& l8 |8 G1 q# o
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